Eat Toast In Bed – Go to Sleep With Crumbs

Sometimes in mediation, I ever so gently broach the subject of responsibility.

Take a construction defect case, and maybe also a joint venture dispute.

In private with the claimant party, I wonder out loud what measure of responsibility might be factored in for their part of the dispute they now found themselves consumed by.

I explain this may be important when evaluating any proposal on the table later in the day.

In the construction defect case I enquire what that measure might be – on the basis they accepted the cheapest tender by far from an outfit that turned out to have a sorry history – sure the builders are now cowboys – but could they not have found this out prior to contract?

In the JV case it was more along the lines – what would they factor in for their own decision to partner with someone who was perfectly honest and competent, but just ended up not being a good cultural fit for them?

The responses are often interesting.

Many resist the exercise. Legal merits trump all.

Some, it turns out, get angry at a rare lapse of judgement and are content to learn (and pay for) a lesson that stands them in good stead for the future.

As one party said recently, a little harshly I felt, ‘if you lie down with dogs – expect to get up with fleas’.

… crumbs or fleas. Hey, I get it.

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